SUNDAY MORNING
After we immigrated I used to be apprehensive
To call to Holland as it was very expensive
So of the letters I received during the week
I had another peek
On Sunday morning while having coffee and cake
While trying not to feel a heartache
Family was always far away
So I wrote a lot of letters to share our day to day
For my parents 40th anniversary I send a recorder
And sharing spoken tapes became a regular order
Then after my father died my mother felt alone
And on Sunday morning reached for the phone
It became a regular routine
From witch we never did wean
Then after she passed
It was my sister who asked
To keep up the routine
So for years again I was seen
Sipping coffee on Sunday morning while on the phone
Helping my sister cope with her illness and not feel alone
She shed many tears
While sharing her deteriorating Parkinson’s symptoms for 20 years
The time came she could no longer speak
But I did not want her to miss the calls every week
She would smile when she heard the ring
Wanting to hear the news I would bring
Her husband Piet would relate the news
and it helped chasing away her blues
After her husband passed away
The nursing staff told me she always knew when it was Sunday
In her room she would sit alone
While staring at the phone
Her eyes would lit up when I called
Smiling as she was enthralled
While the nurse related my story
And she listened with glory
My last call to her was on Skype
And I saw the nurse wipe
Tears from her face while I said good bye
and she was able to see me cry
It was my last siblings connection
An end to my generations family affection
I now have a computer, blackberry, Skype and face time
And even if willing to spend my last dime
My departed loved one’s for now are beyond reach
While having coffee on Sunday morning in Long Beach